Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko Aren’t Engaged — But They Do Have a Hypothetical Wedding Guest List (Exclusive)

Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko could be hearing wedding bells.

While promoting her new partnership with Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day with Us Weekly, the 36-year-old Bachelor alum gushed about best friend Tanya Rad’s recent nuptials — and how the weekend led to conversations about a potential wedding with the “Girls Like Girls” singer.

“It was the perfect weekend,” Tilley said of her “Scrubbing In” podcast cohost. “She was so beautiful. She was like an angel. The weekend itself was just perfect. When someone’s waited this long to have this moment — Tanya has been very vocal about her love journey and her desire to get married — you kind of go like, ‘Oh, I hope it doesn’t disappoint because the expectations are so high.’ I think for all of us, it exceeded every expectation we had for the weekend. It was so special.”

Sharing photos from the nuptials, Kiyoko made her Instagram caption, “Quote of the night ‘you’re next.’”

“Hayley was joking. Since I was one of the maid of honors, I was with Tanya most of the time. So Hayley was kind of on her own, and she said that so many people were coming up to her saying like, ‘Oh, you’re next or when is it y’all’s turn?’” Tilley explained to Us. “Anytime we get to go and celebrate love, especially for our close friends, it makes that idea of us doing that sound so much fun. Afterwards, we were so impressed with their guest list — everyone was so fun and got along and everyone mingled together — we were giving our hypothetical guest list of who would be invited.”

Tilley and Kiyoko have been dating since 2018, going public with their relationship in 2022.

“It’s something we talk about,” Tilley told Us of marriage. “What I love about our relationship is we very much do everything at our own pace. So I think if anything, it was such a weekend full of joy and love that it made us go like, ‘Oh, I can’t wait until that’s our weekend.’”

The twosome will celebrate seven years together this year, sometimes having to navigate long-distance as Kiyoko hits the road on tour or filming.

“Since we’ve met, Hayley’s been busy. My life ebbs and flows in terms of busyness, but I think very early on, I was aware of how passionate and hardworking she is,” Tilley told Us. “And if it’s not music, it’s a book. If it’s not a book, it’s a movie. She is just so creative and talented. Getting to watch the person that you love pursue what they love is one of the greatest gifts ever. I think that was when I realized how much I loved her — even in my jealousy of not getting her attention in time 24/7, I was able to recognize how much she impacts people with her work and what she’s doing. We’ve just navigated it. I have a hard time when she’s gone for long periods of time, but other than that, day to day, easy breezy.”

When Tilley is home without Kiyoko, she always has her dog, Phoebe, which is why she teamed up with the brand to announce their new pet care line.

“I’ve been a fan of Mrs. Meyer’s for a long time. I had high expectations getting these products to try out, and they’ve exceeded everything,” she said. “Phoebe has a ton of sensitivities and allergies. I literally had to almost completely clean out my cleaning products and all of her grooming products to make sure that it’s nothing that irritates her or causes issues. So having a line that’s specifically made and geared toward pets and keeping the house clean and keeping her clean and fresh is the biggest relief ever.”

Tilley — who encouraged pet owners to go to mrsmeyers.com/pages/oopsurance to submit a photo of their pet (the first 1,000 people to submit a “claim” will receive a free product from the line) — mentioned two go-to products.

“They have this stain and odor fighter, and the scent is this coconut leaf. It smells so good. The thing that is different about it is it fights the stain and the smell of the odor at the source, so even after you spray it, it’s still working,” she said, adding that her “favorite” is the white peach dog deodorizing spritz. “My God, it smells so good. I don’t know if it’s her pheromones with it, but she smells incredible. And when I first tested it, I was like, ‘OK, let’s see how she reacts.’ It’s vet tested, it’s cruelty-free by Leaping Bunny, and I am so happy because it hasn’t irritated her at all.”

Before we let her go, Us had to remind Tilley that it was recently the 10-year anniversary of the finale of season 19 of The Bachelor, where fans met Tilley for the first time, and she finished as Chris Soules’ runner-up.

“I could have been manning the corn fields and stuff. Life really took a drastic turn!” Tilley said with a laugh. “A lot happens in 10 years. I was [recently] with a group of Bachelor girls the other night at an event, and I was looking around and I realized, ‘My season was so far back compared to theirs.’ I found myself having that moment of being, like, the college person who came back to the high school prom or something. But I can’t believe it. It feels crazy that it’s been 10 years, but also, there’s so much that’s happened that it was like, ‘Oh, has it only been 10 years?’”