Meet the Real-Life Loves of the Grown Ups Cast (Including One Couple Who Met on a Blind Date!)

Adam Sandler and Jackie Sandler

Adam Sandler, who plays Lenny Feder, is married to fellow actor Jackie Sandler. The couple met while filming the 1999 movie Big Daddy, in which she played a waitress, and he starred as Sonny Koufax.

In 2020, Adam honored the first day they met by sharing a tribute to Jackie on Instagram. He captioned a throwback photo of them, “22 years ago today we locked eyes and fell deep. Looking forward to the next 22, young lady. Love you my forever girl.”

The couple married five years later in 2003 and went on to welcome two daughters: Sadie (born in May 2006) and Sunny (welcomed in November 2008). Both Jackie and the girls have appeared in several of Adam’s films over the years.

In 2023, the entire family of four worked together on the Netflix comedy, You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah.

Kevin James and Steffiana de la Cruz

Kevin James has been in a relationship with his wife, Steffiana de la Cruz, since the early 2000s. The actors met on a blind date and married in 2004.

James and de la Cruz are now parents to four children: daughters Sienna-Marie (born in September 2005), Shea Joelle (welcomed in June 2007) and Sistine Sabella (born in January 2015) and son Kannon Valentine (welcomed in April 2011).

In June 2023, James celebrated their 19th wedding anniversary by posting a selfie of the two of them on Instagram. “19 years… 4 kids… and a lot of peanut butter and jelly… You are my world 🌎 Deo Gratias 🙏❤️🥰 LOVE U,” he captioned the post.

Chris Rock

Chris Rock has kept much of his personal life out of the spotlight and has not shared recent relationship updates.

In 2022, PEOPLE confirmed that the comedian was dating fellow actor Lake Bell. The two were photographed spending time together several times during that summer, and a source later confirmed to PEOPLE that they “have been seeing each other for a few weeks. They are getting to know each other and seem to have fun.”

Prior to his relationship with Bell, Rock was married to Malaak Compton-Rock from 1996 to 2014. The former couple co-parent two daughters: Lola Simone (born in June 2002) and Zahra Savannah (welcomed in May 2004).

David Spade

David Spade appears to be single and has also kept much of his love life out of the spotlight. In the past, he has had relationships with fellow stars Heather Locklear, Laura Flynn Boyle and Julie Bowen.

Although he only briefly dated Locklear, the two have remained friends. During a 2024 public appearance, the actress said, “He is one of my favorite people. I love him so much.”

Spade is a father to one daughter, Harper, whom he welcomed with ex-girlfriend and former Playboy Playmate Jillian Grace in 2008.

Rob Schneider and Patricia Schneider

Rob Schneider has been married to his wife, Patricia Schneider, since 2011. The actor met his future wife while she was working as a television producer in 2007, and they tied the knot four years later.

The couple, who have also worked together on several films, share daughters Miranda Scarlett (born in November 2012) and Madeline Robbie (welcomed in September 2016). Prior to his marriage to Patricia, Rob was in a relationship with London King, and they share one daughter, musician Elle King (born in July 1989).

On Mother’s Day 2025, Rob posted a sweet tribute to Patricia on Instagram and included a photo of them kissing on their wedding day.

“It is true what they say… If you pick the right person, your life will be blessed. And my life has been blessed since the moment I met this remarkable woman,” he captioned the post. “Thank YOU for loving us and for those 2 young ladies who God blessed with the most wonderful mama ever!!”

Salma Hayek and François-Henri Pinault

Salma Hayek has been married to fashion mogul François-Henri Pinault since 2009. The actress reportedly met the billionaire, who is the Kering CEO, in 2006 at an Italian gala.

The couple went on to welcome their daughter, Valentina Paloma, in September 2007, and they married in Paris on Valentine’s Day 2009. Hayek and Pinault renewed their vows in August 2018 in Bora Bora. She is also the stepmother to his kids, Mathilde, Augustin and François.

In May 2025, Hayek shared a sweet birthday message to Pinault by posting a throwback photo of them with Valentina on Instagram. She captioned the post, “Happy Birthday mi amor! As time goes by I keep falling in love with you deeper and deeper. We love you so so so mucho!”

Maya Rudolph and Paul Thomas Anderson

Maya Rudolph is in a relationship with prominent filmmaker Paul Thomas Anderson. The couple started dating in 2001 after he saw her in a Saturday Night Live sketch.

“He said he saw me in [an SNL] sketch and said, ‘That’s the girl I’m going to marry.’ But I don’t know. I wasn’t there. Maybe he just told me that to be sweet,” she told Town & Country in April 2024.

Rudolph and Anderson are parents to four children: daughters Pearl (born in October 2005), Lucille (welcomed in November 2009) and Minnie (born in August 2013) and son Jack (welcomed in July 2011).

Rudolph has kept much of her relationship private, but she has previously explained that she refers to Anderson as her husband, although they are not legally married. She told The New York Times in 2018, “People know what that means. It means he’s the father of my child, and I live with him, and we are a couple, and we are not going anywhere.”

Maria Bello

Maria Bello appears to be single. The actress was previously in a relationship with Dominique Crenn, but Bello filed for divorce in May 2025 after one year of marriage. The actor and the famed chef were previously engaged for five years.

Prior to her marriage to Crenn, Bello was in a relationship with Dan McDermott, and they welcomed one son together, Jackson Blue, in March 2001.