90 Day Tell All: Sarper Reveals Shekinah Kicked Him Out Less Than 1 Month After They Got Married

Sarper is claiming that Shekinah kicked him out of their shared home less than a month after they got married in 90 Day Fiancé‘s 90th wedding.

In part one of the Tell All for season 11 of 90 Day Fiancé, which aired Sunday, June 22, host Shaun Robinson revealed that Shekinah had sent producers a video taken on Christmas Day after one of their fights. According to the video, Sarper had taken off his ring and left it on a table at the apartment.

“It’s Christmas morning. Sarper’s usually sitting here in the morning, but he’s gone. And he left his ring,” Shekinah said while showing the band on the table. She also revealed that Sarper had left behind an AirTag that she previously placed on his keys, adding, “Merry Christmas to us.”

When asked why he took off his ring, Sarper revealed he was kicked out of the house and spent 10 days at a rental. Shekinah then told the group, “This was less than a month after we got married.”

Sarper said the incident was triggered by “small” arguments that led him to explode.

“I need to be more calm, but I cannot,” he explained. “It’s not my character.”

The arguments have apparently turned ugly. Shekinah claimed Sarper has continued to threaten to “go back to Turkey,” and have sex with “everyone else in the country.” 

Dan, Shekinah’s friend, said a man who is “1,000% in love with her” would never do that, and she agreed.

“I feel like he doesn’t truly love me if he can so easily get up and leave,” she explained to the group.

Before the Tell All began, Shekinah claimed she and Sarper were not “on a unified front.”

In a confessional, she said, “We’re not good. I feel like everything changed once we got married and this is just my biggest fear coming to life.”

During the Tell All, Sarper described his marriage as a “rollercoaster” filled with “ups and downs.” He later revealed that he and Shekinah did not sleep in the same hotel room the night prior. 

Earlier in the segment, Shekinah also said the dynamics in their relationship “changed” once Sarper arrived in the United States, noting that Sarper became depressed following the move, causing him to grow resentful.

“I am always the control freak, so I have to control things and when I don’t control things I feel depressed,” Sarper admitted. He then confessed, “I don’t like the marriage.”

When asked to elaborate, Sarper said, “It brought a lot of new responsibilities and duties to my life.”

“Being dependent is the biggest nightmare of mine, and we have egos,” Sarper explained. “When we start to fight on something, it starts from a small thing. Like an avalanche, it gets bigger and bigger. And then, it explodes.”

Shekinah’s friend Dan also suggested the relationship did not seem healthy.

He claimed Shekinah had not spent time with his friend in the four months following the wedding and suggested Shekinah had “lost a lot of weight.”

Sarper quickly began hurling insults at Dan, calling him “a donkey [who] sees himself as the unicorn” and comparing him to “a spare tire.” He also suggested Dan could be a “danger” to his relationship — especially considering he and Shekinah previously dated.

After their segment, Shekinah and Sarper continued to argue backstage. In a confessional, Sarper suggested he and Shekinah were “like enemies to each other.” Separately, Shekinah said she felt she could not make Sarper happy.

“He’s not a supportive partner, period,” she said in her confessional, “So I just started feeling really upset. I’m not okay. I’m having a moment. I feel alone.”

Sitting together in a dressing room, Shekinah said it felt like Sarper “doesn’t care about me” as he glared at her.

“You’re mad at me for having emotions?” Shekinah sobbed. “You need so much therapy, it’s insane.”

Sarper admitted Shekinah makes him “crazy” before issuing a warning to his wife: “You will lose me just because of you, and you will regret like a dog!”

“You called me a dog? What’s wrong with you?” Shekinah tearfully replied. But Sarper continued to push her buttons, calling her “naughty” and “spoiled.”

“It’s so toxic, I’m sick of it,” Shekinah cried before telling Sarper to “leave me the f— alone.”

After walking out of the dressing room, Sarper told producers “she is f—— impossible.” Meanwhile, Shekinah told producers that Sarper “is not capable” of giving her what she needs. 

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90 Day Fiancé airs on Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.